Travelling with twins was always going to be a challenge but being a paranoid, sensitive premature Mum I am bound to find more obstacles than most. I am always conscious of germ possibilities and risks of infection from items used … Continue reading
Back in February I wrote a review of Meghan Regan-Loomis’ book ‘Juggling Twins’. I bought it too late for me to make the most of the advice she provides for the early days with twins and I wanted to highlight … Continue reading
Today, after 6 months of having the babies’ home, we have finally interviewed a cleaner. Her name is Joan, she is a Grandma and she seems lovely. I have to say that I found the interview awkward and it was a good job that David was there or else she would have just been coming for a chat over coffee rather than to clean anything.
As it is though, she starts tomorrow at 10.00am and she is going to come every Thursday for 3 hours. She charges £9 an hour which is more than we expected to pay but for peace of mind and a clean house I think that we will find it worth it. Assuming that she is good at her job.
I felt bad asking someone else to come and clean my house for me. I felt even worse showing her around the place and admitting to the neglect of the last 8 months. David and I have never been the tidiest of people and babies just come with so much stuff!! Joan was very polite but I know that she must have noticed the dirty clothes everywhere, glasses in the bedroom, clean clothes notbeen put away, toys in the strangest of places, surfaces just littered with junk. Not my finest hour!
Now I find myself in a situation though where on a Thursday morning instead of my usual sacred two hours sleep I am going to be getting up to clean for the cleaner, at least ensuring that she can get to the surfaces and floors that I would like her to clean.
I can’t believe that we have a cleaner but something had to give and this was something that we could do to ensure that we have more time and less stress, not I must say that I spend that much time cleaning as it is, but I do spend a lot of time fretting about the lack of cleaning and it is the cause of many heated discussions between David and I.
It will be nice to know that at least once a week the bathroom will be glistening, the kitchen sparkling, the carpets dust free and the entire house will feel fresh and new, as new and fresh as a 16th century cottage can feel! It means that the babies can crawl around without leaving trails in months od settled dust. I think it will also motivate me to be tidier so I don’t have to explain away the utter untidiness of our home. It is a good thing, it will help to restore some balance to our lives. I hope.
So there we have it, tomorrow she begins.
I am actually really looking forward to having her in the house. I jokingly said to David that I may follow her round engaging her in conversation, inviting her for cups of tea and to cuddle a baby! I won’t of course do that, not on her first day!
We have a cleaner!
Walking in the Weather What a glorious week of sunshine! It is hard not to be cheered by the weather alone. I have been out in it every day, walking with our giant double buggy. The babies get two walks … Continue reading
Making Our House Our Home
For this week’s flashback I want to share some photos, in no particular order, of Willow House becoming our home.
We decided to move from our cute little cottage in Bodiam at the end of 2008, when we started IVF. Naively we just assumed that the treatment would work first time and that very soon we would be a family of 3, or even 4.
We found our current house online before it was properly on the market. There were no pictures, only a very brief description, but as it was in a good location for us we decided to go and take a look.
We found this house, our home, and we immediately fell in love with it.
It is a higgledy-piggledy lopsided 17th century cottage which has been sympathetically improved and extended creating a wonderful family home. It is softly lit through small windows and has a very warm feel inside though in reality the house is often freezing because of all the holes in the ancient walls!
On our first viewing we rushed from room to room gasping and exclaiming at how perfect it was for us. The beams, the original floors and doors, the little garden leading to stepping stones over a stream and on to the village green. It was perfect. We could see how we would fill and use each room. It excited and inspired us. We wanted the house to be ours. But we were not the only ones … another couple had viewed he property with as much excitement, energy and enthusiasm as us.
At the end of the viewing we had a chat with the owners who seemed to like us, a young, professional couple with no plans for children!! The owner did not want children living in their house. David and I assured them we were not planning any as they told us that we were not the only people interested in the house.
We went away excited but disappointed, we could not move into a house where we could not have children. Once home at our other house I decided to write to the owners and explain our story to see what could be done. I explained about the IVF and how we might fall pregnant within weeks or not for tears, it was impossible to know. I told them how much we loved the house and that if we were to have a baby there we would leave before they were mobile and able to cause any damage.
We sent the letter and we waited.
Then we got a letter, a letter saying that the house was ours and in February 2009, the day of our first unsuccessful embryo transfer, we collected our keys. Later that month we moved in and vegan making our new house, Willow House, into our home.
During the two week wait of that first IVF cycle I had furnished our new house through EBAY. And on moving day David and his Dad drove all around London collecting the bits I had bought. It was a very tiring day particularly for David and his Dad.
There were some bits of furniture I had not bought that David made; our enormous dining table and our bookshelves. And later our television stand. He made them all from wood using no nails or screws. He used the Internet to teach himself how to do it and they are amazing. A real focal point of our house along with the fires.
This house is in a community that has become special to us, I was baptised in the church behind our house where later this year we will marry and next the twins will be christened. I taught in the village school, we had our engagement barn dance in the church barn and it is just a really lovely place to be. I will be sad when we leave to buy a house of our own.
This is a house that is at its best at Christmas. The beams and fires come alive when decorated with traditional Christmas trimmings and our magnificent table can host a wonderful festive feast.
It has become even more of a home since the babies arrived and we created their nursery and playroom. For a house that is not supposed to have children it has become all the better for having the here.
I love our house, our home.
I hope that you enjoy this peek inside.
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21.9.2010 We will not be going home today as William has lost another 25 grams in weight. He now weighs 2090g. Esther has not yet been weighed but I am now assuming that she too will have lost weight. So … Continue reading