
On Saturday I spent the day at Beale Park planning the Welly Walk with the events coordinator there, Nellie Williams. I walked the route of the welly walk itself and planned where all the different parts of the family fun … Continue reading
On Saturday I spent the day at Beale Park planning the Welly Walk with the events coordinator there, Nellie Williams. I walked the route of the welly walk itself and planned where all the different parts of the family fun … Continue reading
Today I was on Radio 4, talking on Woman’s Hour to the lovely Jenni Murray and over 3 million listeners! As when I do anything for Matilda Mae Twitter caused a storm noticed by the Radio 4 producers. Three different … Continue reading
Yesterday we woke Esther and William very early in the morning and drove to Henley on Thames.
Esther and William were very confused.
‘The sky has gone!’
The sky had not gone of course, but we could not see it, we could not see much, because of the fog.
We travelled to the banks of the Thames through the fog all the while thinking about Uncle Simon and his friends swimming in the freezing cold water through the thickest fog.
Arriving at the riverside and seeing all the athletes preparing to swim was wonderful.
I don’t really know why it made me cry but it did.
There was a real sense of purpose, community
Something special lingered in the fog that morning
We arrived just in time to see the first swimmers leave the water
They were being pulled out of the water by the support team
As they reached dry land some suffered from terrible cramp that had to be massaged away
Others were immediately on the run, stripping off their wetsuits as they ran
Making the transition from the swim to the bike
Watching all these athletes coming out of the water
Was awe inspiring
It was also incredibly emotional
And I felt strangely proud of everyone I saw
Especially Baby Tilda’s Uncle Si
Esther and William had colourful bells to ring for the athletes
As we all applauded and cheered them on.
The Iron Distance Triathlon consists of a 2.4 mile swim, a 112 mile cycle and to round it off, a 26.2 mile run. All within 16 hours!!
Seeing the athletes running from the water to their bikes
Knowing what they had done and what was still to come
It was wonderful and you could not help get involved with cheering every single person on.
Once Uncle Si and his friends were safely and speedily away on their bikes
We drove in convoy with David’s parents and siblings and their families
To a great viewing point where we would be able to see Uncle Si six times as he rode up and down Howe Hill
We stood at the road side clapping and cheering and ringing our bells for all the cyclists that we saw
And our cheering and support seemed to be appreciated
The athletes waved and smiled and thanked us
I really enjoyed being there to see them and congratulate them on each stage of their difficult ride.
It was very strange each time we went to a pub or cafe for lunch or a break
To think that all those men and women were still focused and still cycling
On and on and on for hours and hours and hours
Before starting a marathon around Henley and along the banks of the Thames.
Supporting the run was great fun
Again we found a spot where we would be able to see people more than once
To give them as much support and encouragement as we could
As we went to the finish line to wait for Uncle Si and Pirate Princess Em
It was just so wonderful
Seeing the athletes crossing the finish line
Surrounded by friends and family
And sometimes holding hands with their children.
This was an immense challenge
I have so much respect for every single person that took part
And I am especially proud of Si and Em
We were at the event for 12 hours
Esther and William were incredibly well behaved
And I am certain that Tilda was watching too
There were incredible skies over Henley yesterday
After the fog, when ‘the sky came back!’
Si, Em and their friends all completed the Iron Man Triathlon in Henley yesterday with fabulous times. They all took part in this incredibly difficult challenge with determination and courage and smiles on their faces. I am so proud of all of you.
And thank you Simon, for doing it for Tilda. She would be so very proud of her roly poly uncle.
If you have a spare pound or two, please do sponsor Baby Tilda’s Uncle Si.
He was amazing yesterday.
On the 14th March 2013 6 weeks after Baby Tilda died, I made a pledge. Today we have been given Matilda’s cause of death. SIDS. The coronor has told us categorically that Matilda did not suffocate under her blankets. They … Continue reading
Dearest Esther and William Today you have started your preschool year. You are three years old though really you should still be two. Born in July but due in October, your exceptional birth circumstances have led me to challenge when … Continue reading
As soon as the school year started I emailed our local admissions team to ask if I could speak to someone about delaying Esther and William’s school start. Today they called me back and without asking for any information about … Continue reading
Dear Primary Admissions Team I am writing after a phone call with a member of your team this morning to discuss delaying entry for my summer born, premature twins. Esther and William were born on the 24th July 2010. They … Continue reading
Today I have a post from Rachel who blogs at Right From The Start.
Rachel McClary is an Early Education Consultant and mother to 3 girls. She blogs about early education, play and expat life in the US.
This is a fabulous post about creating your very own sound garden.
Years ago when working in nurseries we had a teacher who created sound gardens made from recycled materials. He’d put a rope across the garden and the children would hang all manner of tubes, bottles and metallic objects from it to bash. It was always really popular. My kids love music, we have lots of real instruments in the house that they experiment with, we sing and play music and I run parent and toddler music groups but somehow we’ve have never transferred this freedom to explore music to the outdoors.
I began to think about creating our own sound garden gathering inspiration from Pinterest.
To begin with we tried hanging objects from the branches of a tree. I tried a balloon filled with rice, a milk carton filled with pasta, bells and a pot containing shells. It wasn’t very successful, the tree masked a lot of the instruments, the balloon popped and some of the instruments fell off the tree. A visit to Dr Mazes Farm who have created a really simple but effective music garden, gave me the inspiration to try again.
I found a bungee and a cargo net and stretched them between the fence and posts in the garden. This is a perfect natural shady spot in the garden. I collected tin cans and pierced a hole in them using a corkscrew and scissors so that we could attach Para cord through the centre and tie them to the bungee. We also found other metallic objects, pans, bottle tops, and saucepan lids.
To add to this we made a number of shakers using different objects from the garden to fill them. My 2-year old helped me collect stones, shells and bottle tops to fill the containers.
A couple of spare tins were turned upside down to make a drum set. My daughter began to play, using a pair of sticks and hitting the objects on the line. The pan lid seemed the best option for a cymbal so we moved things around.
To finish it off we created a listening area for the children to chill out and listen to the music. We sometimes take a cd player into the listening area too.
I’d like to think that over time the children will come up with their own ideas to add to the sound garden and continue listen and explore making sounds.
This week’s messy play was not really very messy at all. It is a day that just unfolded in a lovely Matilda way and I wanted to share it. I hope you don’t mind. After breakfast Esther asked to do … Continue reading