As a day of spring sunshine in Spain draws to a close A wet Easter in Kent feels a lifetime away But I want to share our experience of meeting the Easter Bunny At Wyevale Chartham, near Canterbury This is … Continue reading
In two days Bea will be 20 months old
She has slept every single night of her life with me
I cannot imagine things having been any other way
But we need to find a way to stop
The darkest part of my days
Is the hour I sit in a pitch black room
Willing a giant baby Bea to fall asleep
In my arms
On my lap
I am still feeding her to sleep
Because physically and emotionally I don’t know how to stop
Yet physically and emotionally this is what I need the most
Feeding Bea to sleep
Sitting motionless on the sofa with her
From 6pm everyday
Is crippling me
Literally crippling me
For the past three days I have been in excruciating pain
In my lower back
All round my hips
Down my thighs and in the back of my knees
I can tell from where it hurts most
That is linked to how I sit while feeding Bea
It is not good for my mental wellbeing either
The darkness of the living room
I get sad and cross and frustrated
The longer it takes Bea to fall asleep
The worse I feel
We do not end our days together well
I want my evenings back
I want my body back
I just wish I knew how
She has never slept in a cot
I do not really mind her being in bed with me
It is the sofa in the evening that is hard
It feels like a huge roadblock
Stopping me
Us
From moving forward
I could spend my evenings doing jobs around the house
Setting up learning and play for the next day
Anything other than feeling totally trapped
Under Bea
I am beginning to really resent the time
Dread the time
It is not good for our relationship
It is not the bonding experience it once was when she was new born
I want us to move to the next stage together
I want to straighten out the kinks
Most notably in my spine!
I dread the darkness falling
I hate our living room
Can anyone please tell me what I should do?
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Today the school run felt like a horror story Bea was bumbling around the playground as she does William chased after her At first I thought he was trying to cuddle her Seconds too late I saw he was tackling … Continue reading