A Mother’s Love

Today David and I are in London with Matilda Mae.

We are at a wedding.

Esther and William are entertaining Granny and Grandad at home.

I have been looking forward to this night away for ages.

I bought new shoes, a £240 dress.

The wedding was at 4.30pm.

By 9.15pm I was in my Melba nursing pyjamas snuggling up with Matilda Mae.

This is where I want to be.

Snuggled up with my baby in my arms.

I am missing the toddler twins too.

So why am I always seeking an escape?

I love lying here watching Matilda sleep.

She is so peaceful.

So tiny on the expanse of crisp white hotel sheets.

I am drinking her in and wishing we had more times like these.

Have I really missed out because I have never been a mother of one?

Her little hands are resting on my chest.

She keeps reattaching herself to me for a sleepy feed.

We could not be closer than we are in this moment.

It is beautiful.

I am totally and utterly in love.

There is nowhere I would rather be.

Though I would love to have my beautiful two with me here too.

I am going to read this post and remember this feeling when a day at home is hard

Because above all else

Is love

Love Me!!

Look Who’s Talking!

Esther and William’s vocabulary seems to be exploding at the moment. They are talking all the time. To themselves, to us, each other and to their toys.

Their capacity for imaginative play is growing by the day.

I am so so very proud of them.

Their day begins with breakfast. They let us know when they are ready to eat, help to set the table and choose their cereal. They then commentate on the entire meal. Who is eating what, how they are eating, what they are eating with. They comment on what we are all wearing, what they can see in the playroom, what the weather is doing and what they can see out of the window. We talk about what we will be doing that day and who we will see. This prompts them to go on to say what they know about the places we go and the people that we see.

In the car we generally have music on, children’s traditional music much of the time. Esther and William are starting to be able to sing along but mostly in the car we talk about where we are going, what we might do when we get there and who they might see. We also comment on the journey they tell me when we are going up hill, down hill, through a tunnel, over a bridge. They describe the vehicles that we see using colour and size. They love driving through the woods near our village and talk about the deep dark wood and searching for The Gruffalo.

They are starting to use pronouns correctly and love saying ‘on your …’ and ‘I’m coming with you.’ This is usually as they follow me to the loo!

They are beginning to understand plurals and talk about peoples a lot.

They can count up to four now and recite and recognise numbers from 0 – 9. They understand that zero means nothing.

They are starting to ask lots of questions and very funnily question themselves. What are you doing, Esther? Where’s William going?

They like to role play real life scenarios and can often be found breastfeeding teddy bears and changing toys’ nappies.

They can confidently name shapes including ovals and pentagons and know lots of colours with their current favourite being purple.

They know lots of animal words and food words and love to be dramatic in their descriptions. They are also great mimics and I am sure in the future at least one of them will be on the stage. Esther is always pretending to be The Grand Old Duke of York at the moment from Show Me Show Me, though she marches more like John Cleese!

They are becoming a tight team, a funny double act, the cutest comedy duo that you ever did see.

I love my children so much and am immensely proud to be their mummy.

What wonderful little communicators they have become.

Thank you Esther and William for making life fun!

My Stokke Wish List for Matilda Mae

October is an exciting month for Matilda Mae.

She is now 5 months old and is definitely ready for weaning.

She needs to be weaned on to solid food and out of our bed!

With all the changes ahead of us I have started shopping around for products to help us make the transitions we now need to make.

Through my research one brand seems to be sticking out to me more than any other and I think I have fallen a little bit in love.

I’m a little bit in love with Stokke!

I have been talking on Twitter and Facebook about how we need a new stroller. Until now we have used our Chicco Nunu but most of the time I end up wearing Matilda and pushing an empty pram. She does not like lying flat and she hates being in her car seat. Even in the car. She is not a good traveller. The only way she will go anywhere in a pram is if I am bent right over with my face close to hers and talking to her. It seems to me that the creators of Stokke understand my baby and have raised the seat of their stroller up high so that babies can connect with their parents and get the attention that they crave and the security that they need. At the moment Matilda and I have a problem. She does not want to be lying flat and I do not want her to be facing away from me. We need a parent facing pushchair and I think that the very clever, simply stunning Stokke Xplory could be just what we need.

Whilst browsing the Stokke website and admiring all the clever concepts of the Xplory I was also drawn to the details of their carrier. At the moment I carry Matilda in a Baby Bjorn Miracle which we both love but I am suffering from back problems as I am petite and Baby is not. Other mummies that I meet suggest that now Matilda is bigger I could carry her on my back. And actually I think she would love that! The Stokke My Carrier would make it possible to give back carrying a go and switch back to being on my front if either of us is at all unsure. What a great idea!

Once I had started admiring some Stokke products it would have been rude not to peruse them all. And guess what, each one made me fall a little more in love.

When your Baby is the best thing in your world you want the best of the best for them?

So add to the list above the fabulously funky and functional Tripp Trapp.

Wouldn’t she look cute?

Holding Out for a Tripp Trapp!

And the bed fit for a princess the Stokke Sleepi Bed.

That should see us through the upcoming toddler years.

Now to convince the Daddy!!

Big Questions From Little People: Are You Ready?

Today sees the launch of a wonderful new book compiled by Gemma Elwin Harris.

Big Questions from Little People is a collection of genuine questions asked by primary school pupils and answered by a range of ‘very big people’ including Sir David Attenborough, Bear Grylls and my personal favourite, Jarvis Cocker!

The opportunity to review this book has come at a great time for us. Esther and William are now two years old and are becoming very curious about their world.

I no longer, for example, go to the toilet alone because the wonder of mummy on the big potty is just too much to ignore. So off to the loo we all go with questions from my adorable children including, ‘What’s that sound?’ ‘What’s Mama doing?’ and ‘Where’s that wee gone?’

Last week we lost my husband’s Grandad and we deliberated for a long time about whether or not to take our children to the family funeral service. In the end we decided against for many reasons including that they would just have too many questions that we might not want or be able to answer at that time.

Children love to ask questions and they have no sense of what is appropriate and when.

I have very crooked teeth and I will never forget one of my pupils asking me when I taught Year 2 why my teeth were all broken. I will also always remember a young year 4 boy asking me why Jesus’ disciples were eating his body and drinking his blood.

Esther and William are just beginning to question what goes on around them and I am looking forward to helping them to learn and to learning alongside them too.

The Big Questions book I am sure will make a great starting point for preparing me for the years and questions to come.

I have just received the book today and am about to start reading so please do come back to the blog for our full review.

In the meantime, can you answer any of these? Jarvis Cocker can!!

How do you fall in love?
How far away is space?
Why can’t we live forever?
Why is space so sparkly?
Why do we have music?
Is it ok to eat a worm?

If you would like to read the Big Questions book for yourself then it is available to buy online from Faber at just £9.99 with at least 67% of royalty fees being given to the NSPCC.

Birthday Trip to Bekenscot Model Village

So on Friday I did not win a Mad Blog Award (Congratulations to those who did!!) and I also became a year older.

I am 36 years old.

How is that even possible?

Birthday Girl and Bekenscot Bear!

Today I had my very special birthday outing with the family. Often for my birthday I choose to go to the zoo but this year I wanted to do something different.

While watching Show Me Show Me with Esther and William earlier in the year I saw one of the characters, Miss Mouse, exploring a model village and from that snapshot I set my heart on going there, to Bekenscot, as I had a feeling that Esther and William would love it.

And guess what? They did!

We all did.

We had a wonderful day out.

It was the most engaged Esther and William have ever been on a day trip. They loved exploring the miniature village, were so excited by the mini railway and loved the toddler playground.

Bekenscot provided the perfect setting for a relaxed family celebration.

The village is beautiful, taking you through life as it would have been in the 1930s.

It made me yearn for the simple life especially when looking at the old fashioned fairground. Not a flashing light in sight!

Esther and William loved spotting the animals in the zoo and listening to the music coming from the church.

We walked around the village three times in all. Esther and William loved looking at all the little people and loved spotting buses and trains and planes. Matilda Mae loved the trains too.

The cafe was lovely and clean, it was also very reasonably priced and I felt a little sad that we had brought a picnic as I quite fancied most of the healthy and wholesome foods that the cafe had to offer. We did enjoy some coffee and hot chocolates. They were delicious too.

When we did eat our picnics there were plenty of sheltered tables to choose from and lots of clean highchairs too.

Around the picnic area there were signs painted on the floor which made a great game. Who can stand on the tea cup?

While we drank our hot drinks Esther and William explored the toddler friendly play area. They had a wonderful time climbing and sliding and meeting Rupert the Bear!

Most of all though Esther and William enjoyed being giants exploring the miniature world. We all loved the ride on train too!

The park was bustling but not overly busy. I was thrilled to see Rob Brydon and his family there but was too frightened to say hello.

We really did have a wonderful day and it was well worth the 90 minute drive from home. There was plenty of space for our double buggy including a covered buggy park and picnic storage area. The baby change area was bright and clean. Everything was designed with thought and care for young families making a good day a great one. I was really really impressed.

The Bekenscot Model Village is a perfect day out for young children. We all had a wonderful time.

I cannot wait to go back again!

Thomas and Friends at Drayton Manor

At the end of the summer I was offered tickets to Thomas Land at Drayton Manor Park for a very special screening of the new Thomas & Friends movie Blue Mountain Mystery. I knew at once who I would like to send on my behalf. My train mad nephews aged six and three and a half. Their mummy kindly agreed to be interviewed about the day and the screening. This is what she had to say.

Did you require accommodation in the area for your visit to Drayton Manor’:
Yes. Through Expedia (cheapest rate), we booked a room to accommodate the family at the Drayton Manor Hotel. We stayed for 1 night B&B.

What are your thoughts in regards to the accommodation/Would you recommend the accommodation?
Upon arrival I felt the hotel was light, airy and modern and clearly had the best access to Drayton Manor, being situated opposite the gates to the attractions. However, the staff in the hotel (unless in managerial positions), lacked knowledge and enthusiasm or common sense. The room was fine. Adequate for our needs of a 1 night stay for much less than 24 hours. The food was NOT amazing in the restaurant. The hotel had a lovely children’s play area, outside, but no other activities apart from fruit machines, arcade machines, grab machines seen anywhere else in the hotel. I would very much liken the experience to staying at a Travel Lodge or motorway service hotel. As said, fine for a 1 night stay, although pricey for a Travel Lodge experience (especially when it’s marketing indicates the hotel is of greater quality). On a previous visit to Drayton Manor, my family and I stayed at the Lea Marston hotel, 10 minutes away from the park by car. This has a pool, lovely rooms, a spa etc. It was the same price as the Drayton Manor. All staff were friendly and intuitive, the facilities fantastic for a 2 day break. At the time of that stay, the cost was cheaper than that of the Drayton Manor Hotel.

What was your ‘Park’ experience on the day:
Following breakfast, my family and I entered the park at 10:00am ready for 10:30am when the rides open. We didn’t experience any queues entering the park. Read out our booking reference to the clerk, received our tickets and walked on in. All rides, games and shops were closed. Cafes were open as was the zoo. We walked through part of the zoo and then headed to the Thomas Land area of the park for 10:30am.

My children are 3 and 6 years old. They both LOVE Thomas the Tank Engine. We had visited the park in December 2011, and they had enjoyed themselves thoroughly then, this experience was to be much the same. The rest of Drayton Manor theme park was quite out of their height and play reach but that did not phase them or feature on their radars at all. They were both delighted to be back in Thomas Land.

The rides are great as have been well thought out for children of all ages and those of a certain height must be accompanied by an adult. There is plenty to do in Thomas Land and all the characters are their, on site, which means every childs favorite can be touched or ridden on someway or another. Thomas, Rosie and Percy pull carriages packed with parents and giddy children through to a different point of the park continuously throughout the day. My boys wanted a ride on Thomas, and loved every minute they were on board.

The boys chose what they wanted to ride on, and off we went. My husband and I taking it in turns to join the boys and enjoying the experience with them.

My 6 year old son is currently undergoing a 2 month procedure on his leg, which has involved an operation and strict rules in regards to no pressure being applied to his foot and leg (ie no walking). As a result my son has been issued a wheel chair and he has a thigh length plaster cast.

Having enjoyed our first ride of the day, ‘Dizzy Diesel’s’, the ride operator advised us that we could get a special pass from the Visitor Support Unit, where we would be issued with a card that confirmed our party had disability access to 10 rides, and didn’t need to join the main queue’s. The Visitor Support team confirmed that we were allowed to go to the Exit gate of each ride and as long as we presented our ticket there, to the ride operator, would be let on the next ride without joining the main queue. The ride operator would stamp one of the 10 spaces on the card.

This card was very good and admittedly saved my family a LOT of time as we did not have to join the main queues. The popular rides of Harold Helicopter, Jeremy Jet, Vintage Cars and the train ride to the zoo had lengthy queues which my children would not have understood and would have become bored and agitated in.

As a family of a child with learning difficulties who was also in a wheel chair, the Thomas Land staff were caring and helpful.

We bought coffee from a cafe before the rides had opened. The prices were cafe prices and not racked up, which was refreshing.

We bought lunch, inclusive of sandwiches and crisps for my husband and I, and a sandwich ‘lunch box’ for the boys. This worked well for my family, and the boys lunch box was under £4.00 containing sandwiches, drink, crisps, chocolate bar and a yogurt. As with any theme park there were several styles of food available Burgers, Grills, Pies. During our December visit, we ate in the Drayton Manor fast food styled burger bar and knew that we would be avoiding eating there again. Other families were enjoying their own picnics and everyone was enjoying the good weather!

Did you enjoy the screening of Thomas the Tank Engine ‘s Blue Mountain Mystery?
I love the fact that my children really enjoy something as innocent as Thomas the Tank Engine. Soon enough, as growing boys, they will be moving on to the likes of Transformers, Ben 10 and other slightly more fast paced, thrill seeking, alien crushing shows. Why wouldn’t I encourage their enjoyment of Thomas the Tank and steam railways?

Both of my children really enjoyed the film. Blue Mountain Mystery tells the story of ‘an incident that was an accident’ (although of course the diesels as usually stirred trouble and dealt blame, got their facts all wrong and caused difficulty among the steamies!). The story showed Thomas befriending a scarred little train and being trusted with a secret as well as helping out. An enjoyable story and not as ‘dark’ as the previous film Day of the Diesels (which features train gangs!).

My 3 year old went in to his Nursery the following day, his first day of the term, and was able to recite the key elements of the story to his teacher, without parental prompt. I was quite impressed, it’s not like him to recount his experiences. This film he had obviously really enjoyed.

On exit of the cinema, the PR Team issued each child a cloth Blue Mountain Mystery bag that was absolutely rammed with Thomas the Tank merchandise. The boys were so excited, this was definitely Christmas early! The bags contained trains, books, a DVD of the new film that we had just seen, Thomas the Tank branded water even down to Thomas the Tank tooth paste! Their eyes were bulging at the abundance of gifts.

Are you able to grade your overall experience of Thomas Land?
My husband and I both agree that Thomas Land is a fantastic place to take a young family. Not only does it introduce the concept of ‘Theme Parks’ to younger children, the enjoyment they get from being surrounded by all of the characters from Thomas the Tank Engine are heavily underestimated.

With any theme park, a visit out of Peak Time is going to enhance the users experience as queues are nothing more than one ride deep, so if planning a visit, timing in line with non-term time, may be something worth considering.

We would return to Thomas Land, perhaps during their Christmas specials because our children had such an enjoyable time, even though at the time of this vist my son had greater difficulties than he usually suffers.

A great film, and a great day. 10/10 from us!

Thank you Drayton Manor, Thomas Land and all those involved.

For more information on Drayton Manor Park and Thomas Land, please visit http://www.draytonmanor.co.uk

You can find out more about the Blue Mountain Mystery here: http://www.thomasandfriends.com/bluemountain

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